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A pretty girl in a striped skirt is passing through a railway station. A discreet phone on the floor captures her inner thighs. A secretary parts her legs under the mistaken comfort of her table. The phone of the visitor she is talking to knows. A school girl sitting on the steps outside a cinema hall, unaware that something is showing, a housewife bending down to pick vegetables in the open market, a girl in a low-neck top at a cyber cafe, a woman crouching to serve guests at a wedding, a chawl girl using the common toilet. All these images are on the internet, against screaming links lining innumerable message boards. These regular women probably would never know, or worse they would probably come to know, that they have become sex items on the net. Their pictures, posted on voyeur sites, are passing the gleeful eyes of hundreds of males at this very moment.
Far greater trauma awaits those girls who favoured their boyfriends by letting a camera tape their intimate moments or were victims of the hotel room service spying through a keyhole. A girl taking her top off in a car to please her man, a newly-wed couple in their honeymoon suite, an executive hurriedly changing into evening wear. All these too are the rage on message boards, posted by boys who, in all probability, are not grotesque, dark, abnormal psychotics but regular types one encounters everyday. Somehow, they do not care about how many lives they are ruining in the wake. All to get what are called Rep (reputation) Points, compliments from other users of their message boards.
The Indian public space is today stalked by boys and men who enjoy recording the inescapable exposures of just about any woman. Even the image of a fat sari-clad lady travelling on the side bar of a packed autorickshaw has been posted. The affordability of mobile cameras, the ease with which such images can be uploaded and the fame of being prolific in these matters has unleashed an underground terror here that may have no solutions as this trend in the First World has shown.
The most disturbing element in this is the increasing willingness of men to post images of their own girlfriends or even wives. What began as an MMS clip of a Delhi school girl that caused a national outrage is today a torrent. In most of these home videos shot by consenting couples, the faces of the couple are blurred or cut from the frame. A man who calls himself Wonderarts regularly posts two to five minute nude videos of a woman he claims is his wife (he never shows her face). He tells "I need reps (reputation points) and more downloads (an indicator of his fame) and I assure you guys a satisfactory result."
The sleazier and more "home-made" a posted picture or video is, the higher the rep and the source moves up in ranking. Most of the time the ultimate prize is nothing more than being the most popular member on the message board but sometimes, a few members also try to sell video clips. In one such clip that is for sale, you can hear the pleading voice of the man begging a woman to let her be taped. An increasing number of such clips are from small towns where the girls are unaware of how such clips can be misused. Small town cyber cafes where couples routinely make-out in the cubicles, are a common setting in the posted clips.
Why men do this, why are they willing to ruin whole lives for nothing more than fame in some internet underground, is not exactly a profound question. Men have always bragged about their little conquests, they have always looked at women with hatred because women exhibit power over them, the power to deny them or the power to grant them the thing they need the most. It has always been the case. But now technology has allowed men to express their hatred.
Far greater trauma awaits those girls who favoured their boyfriends by letting a camera tape their intimate moments or were victims of the hotel room service spying through a keyhole. A girl taking her top off in a car to please her man, a newly-wed couple in their honeymoon suite, an executive hurriedly changing into evening wear. All these too are the rage on message boards, posted by boys who, in all probability, are not grotesque, dark, abnormal psychotics but regular types one encounters everyday. Somehow, they do not care about how many lives they are ruining in the wake. All to get what are called Rep (reputation) Points, compliments from other users of their message boards.
The Indian public space is today stalked by boys and men who enjoy recording the inescapable exposures of just about any woman. Even the image of a fat sari-clad lady travelling on the side bar of a packed autorickshaw has been posted. The affordability of mobile cameras, the ease with which such images can be uploaded and the fame of being prolific in these matters has unleashed an underground terror here that may have no solutions as this trend in the First World has shown.
The most disturbing element in this is the increasing willingness of men to post images of their own girlfriends or even wives. What began as an MMS clip of a Delhi school girl that caused a national outrage is today a torrent. In most of these home videos shot by consenting couples, the faces of the couple are blurred or cut from the frame. A man who calls himself Wonderarts regularly posts two to five minute nude videos of a woman he claims is his wife (he never shows her face). He tells "I need reps (reputation points) and more downloads (an indicator of his fame) and I assure you guys a satisfactory result."
The sleazier and more "home-made" a posted picture or video is, the higher the rep and the source moves up in ranking. Most of the time the ultimate prize is nothing more than being the most popular member on the message board but sometimes, a few members also try to sell video clips. In one such clip that is for sale, you can hear the pleading voice of the man begging a woman to let her be taped. An increasing number of such clips are from small towns where the girls are unaware of how such clips can be misused. Small town cyber cafes where couples routinely make-out in the cubicles, are a common setting in the posted clips.
Why men do this, why are they willing to ruin whole lives for nothing more than fame in some internet underground, is not exactly a profound question. Men have always bragged about their little conquests, they have always looked at women with hatred because women exhibit power over them, the power to deny them or the power to grant them the thing they need the most. It has always been the case. But now technology has allowed men to express their hatred.
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