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Giving dowery is not good and every body will make openion against it and finly in there own cases all will forget the principles and will give and take dowery -
Those guys who are no capable of not confident normally takes dowry. .. ID you take dowry, it should not be called marriage, but business
grop up guys .... give them respect and love them
dont take or give downry
Now a days i has become a trend to marry a girl with a good dowry. they are ot even bothered about other things ....
only and only if we change our attitude towards the marriage and women, this system can be wiped out
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we cannot stop it if i and you alone not marrying a gal having dowry.. the whole society should turn back...Originally posted by sumithchan
if it is illigial, then about 60% to 90% are doing wrong things..Leave a comment:
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sumith we can actually change it.. but most people don't even try to do it.. thats the problem.. i hope this will end in one dayOriginally posted by sumithchan View PostLeave a comment:
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u could decide that ur not giong to give dowry for ur marriage that would make change in our societyOriginally posted by Achu View Postoiiiiiiiiiiiii am not sayin anythin abt ma marriage!!!
n well 2 be honest i really dont know but i wont let him "marry" my money/wealth!:o d'u know wat i mean?
we have try to change this unwanted systems
do u know what i ment?
i will try top stop itOriginally posted by jisoa View Post
i will marry a girl without having dowry?
do u no giving or taking dowry is iligal?
everyone in this ukindian family could decide that i will not give or take dowry when i marry that would make a small differance
u could force ur duaghters or sons not to give dowry?Originally posted by jisoa View Post
that would pass trough genrations that would make differance?
i think there should be man like anniyan to punish people who gives or takes dowry?
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Hey wat so the difference in rich and poor, both face the same probs. This dowry has bcome so very common in India. A voice shuld definetly arise so that v can stop the crimes. I came across a recent news in which the girl commited sucide bcos of the problems created by her in laws. But thank god our Indian law was gud that both the fellow and his parents where arrested.
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Dowary has its own good and bad
Dowary can be considered as a finiancial support for the newly wed to start their family but also people put too much importance to this that it breaks the familesLeave a comment:
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I don't think DOWRY is good one.. actually itz like making the galz family poor...but therez no problem if the galz family is rich... guyz who get dowry will be much more richer...
i agree with you Sonu.. if guys marry gals with dowry itz equivelent of buying galz family buying a guy for that gal.. and if the galz don't give money or land they will not marry.. so ridiculous isn't it??? then i think guyz who marry galz with dowry doesn't marry for any relationship between them. where as only for money..so no one like that can lead a peaceful life.. it usually end up with divorce.. another problem... and it goes on and on.. so therez always problems untill we die..Originally posted by sonumary View Post
I don't have any points to tell that it is good to have dowry.. so i am completely against it....
Nice topic ACHU..keep on going...Last edited by ninghalkaai; 19 October 2006, 05:32.Leave a comment:
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dowry!!!!!!!!!!!!y is this thing???????is it useful...??i think its useful in one side and useless in otherside....i dont know y our people is encouraging this.....anyway iam against it....guyz dont marry gals without dowry???if that,, then they r buying gals rt????if they need money then they dont hav to marry gals at all...many problems are rising due to this.....its actually rubbish....!!!!!!!!!!!....
hey archana....this is good topic.......Leave a comment:
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Its one of the nonsense stuffs, and ironically if you do a survey for this, most of the parents wont oppose this(including girls parents). dont know if it can be abolished completely from society.Leave a comment:
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i can c a big deal ib here.now,priya,can i intrepret ur opinion slightly?plz...Originally posted by **priyam** View Post
u r ryt priya,
its compulsurury rule in india!but y?
so guys won't marry girls without any dowry huh?dats da stupid thing i have ever hrd.
its ok,if it is a educated girl! but wat abt a girl hu is illiterated?ders lot of question n da world which v cant answer!
but guys,der r lots of poor girls,we can't do anythin abt it but, we cld raise our voice against dis stupid"dowry system"Leave a comment:
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I dnt agree with this Dowry either!! Its killing poor familes in our country!! some people even sells their properties for this dowry thingy!!!!! Thts a sad thing abt our country!!!!!!!!!!!!Leave a comment:
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