??.♥.??Ten Secrets of Love??.♥.??

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  • Jessfrance
    • Sep 2006
    • 4440

    ??.♥.??Ten Secrets of Love??.♥.??

    * The first secret - the power of thought.
    Love begins with our thoughts. We become what we think about.Loving
    thoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships. Affirmations can change our beliefs and thoughts about ourselves and others. If we want to love someone, we need to consider their needs and desires. Thinking about your ideal partner will help you recognize her when you meet her.

    * The second secret - the power of respect.
    You cannot love anyone or anything unless you first respect them. The first person you need to respect is yourself. To begin to gain self-respect ask yourself, "What do I respect about myself?" To gain respect for others, even those you may dislike, ask yourself "What do I respect about them?"

    * The third secret - the power of giving.

    If you want to receive love, all you have to do is give it! The more love you give, the more you will receive. To love is to give of yourself, freely and unconditionally. Practice random acts of kindness. Before committing to a relationship ask not what the other person will be able to give to you, but rather what will you be able to give them. The secret formula of a happy, lifelong, loving relationship is to always focus on what you can give instead of what you can take.

    * The fourth secret - the power of friendship.
    To find a true love, you must first find a true friend. Love does not consist of gazing into each other's eyes, but rather looking outward together in the same direction. To love someone completelely you must love them for who they are, not what they look like. Friendship is the soil through which love's seeds grow. If you want to bring love into a relationship, you must first bring friendship.

    * The fifth secret - the power of touch.
    Touch is one of the most powerful expressions of love, breaking down barriers and bonding relationships. Touch changes our physical and emotional states and makes us more receptive to love.

    * The sixth secret - the power of letting go.
    If you love something, let it free. If it comes back to you it's yours, if it doesn't it never was. Even in a loving relationship, people need their own space. If we want to learn to love, we must first learn to forgive and let go of past hurts and grievances. Love means letting go of our fears, prejudices, egos and conditions." Today I let go of all my fears, the past has no power over me - today is the beginning of a new life."

    * The seventh secret - the power of communication.

    When we learn to communicate openly and honestly, life changes. To love
    someone is to communicate with them. Let the people you love know that you love them and appreciate them. Never be afraid to say those three magic words: "I Love You." Never let an opportunity pass to praise someone.
    Always leave someone you love with a loving word - it could be the last
    time you see them. If you were about to die but could make telephone calls
    to the people you loved, who would you call, what would you say and......... ....... ...why are you waiting?

    * The eighth secret - the power of commitment.
    If you want to have love in abundance, you must be committed to it, and
    that commmitment will be reflected in your thoughts and actions. Commitment is the true test of love. If you want to have loving relationships, you must be committed to loving relationships. When you are committed to someone or something, quitting is never an option. Commitment distinguishes a fragile relationship from a strong one.

    * The ninth secret - the power of passion.
    Passion ignites love and keeps it alive. Lasting passion does not come through physical attraction alone, it comes from deep commitment,
    enthusiasm, interest and excitement. Passion can be recreated by recreating past experiences when you felt passionate. Spontaneity and surprises produce passion. The essence of love and happiness are the same;
    all we need to do is to live each day with passion.

    * The tenth secret - the power of trust.
    Trust is essential in all loving relationships. Without it one person becomes suspicious, anxious and fearful and the other person feels trapped and emotionally suffocated. You cannot love someone completely unless you trust them completely. Act as if your relationship with the person you love will never end. One of the way in which always you can tell whether a person is right for you is to ask yourself, "Do I trust them completely and unreservedly? " If the answer is "no", think carefully before making a commitment.



    What do u think guys???? reply please!!
    Last edited by Jessfrance; 16 January 2007, 18:34.



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  • christeena_4_u
    Weindianvip
    • Nov 2006
    • 1280

    #2
    yup!!! vry tru...thanx dee..hmm..inni ithu try cheyaan oru aalle kandu pidikkanamz!! hehe...

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    • Jessfrance
      • Sep 2006
      • 4440

      #3
      Originally posted by christeena_4_u View Post
      yup!!! vry tru...thanx dee..hmm..inni ithu try cheyaan oru aalle kandu pidikkanamz!! hehe...
      Ayyayo...appo ethu vare aareyum kandu pidichilley??? very bad :laugh: so help vallom venamenghkil .....dnt hesitate to ask me!



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      • christeena_4_u
        Weindianvip
        • Nov 2006
        • 1280

        #4
        illa orikalum illa..ennikku ariyam mele..ithinokke nee midukki aanennu..enthenkilum preshnam ondengil..i'll alwayz consult u!!!

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        • shalini
          • Nov 2006
          • 90

          #5
          Very Very nice and intersting

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          • sonumary
            • Sep 2006
            • 2085

            #6
            ho kure udello jess....!!!!!!thanks for the post...

            ~*~The height of pain in life is to sit near the person
            u love d most .....
            knowing that the person can never b urs ...!!!!!~*~

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            • Jessfrance
              • Sep 2006
              • 4440

              #7
              Originally posted by christeena_4_u View Post
              illa orikalum illa..ennikku ariyam mele..ithinokke nee midukki aanennu..enthenkilum preshnam ondengil..i'll alwayz consult u!!!
              haha thats good to hear!!!! eshooye veliyil kidanna paabhine thoolil eduthitathu pole aakumo entho!!!



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              • reshmiraju
                Weindianvip
                • Oct 2006
                • 512

                #8
                wow Jess.............gr8 work...................true words with true meaning............thanx 4 sharing mate.....keep posting.................

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                • Jessfrance
                  • Sep 2006
                  • 4440

                  #9
                  Ur welcome da



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                  • sparrow
                    • Dec 2006
                    • 3974

                    #10
                    wow nice one, especially trust, which is very imp
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                    • s4sree
                      • Oct 2006
                      • 4854

                      #11
                      hmmm...kochu kalli........
                      ippol e love inte secrets okke evidennu padichukondu vannu.....
                      evidennayalum kollam .....
                      thanks for the post.......oreyoru kuzhappam...
                      ithokke pareekshichu nokkan oraale kandipidikendi varum....
                      ******************************
                      If there ever comes a day When we can't be together
                      keep me in your heart, I'll stay there forever.

                      **************************************

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                      • Jessfrance
                        • Sep 2006
                        • 4440

                        #12
                        Hmm you are right!! nammukku pathrathil oru parasyam koduthaalo da???



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                        • s4sree
                          • Oct 2006
                          • 4854

                          #13
                          Originally posted by Jessfrance View Post
                          Hmm you are right!! nammukku pathrathil oru parasyam koduthaalo da???
                          pakshe parasyathi....hrithik inte padam vachaal mathi......
                          enthinaa veruthe aalkare pedipikkunne..............
                          ******************************
                          If there ever comes a day When we can't be together
                          keep me in your heart, I'll stay there forever.

                          **************************************

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                          • Jessfrance
                            • Sep 2006
                            • 4440

                            #14
                            yeaa athu njaanaghu marannu... njan onnu fainted aayathalle!! hmmmm precuation is always better than cure!!! so njan risk onnum edukunillaaz



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                            • s4sree
                              • Oct 2006
                              • 4854

                              #15
                              Originally posted by Jessfrance View Post
                              yeaa athu njaanaghu marannu... njan onnu fainted aayathalle!! hmmmm precuation is always better than cure!!! so njan risk onnum edukunillaaz
                              goood ....pinne enne kurichu nallathe ezhuthavu keto
                              oru impression ondakki edukande...........
                              ******************************
                              If there ever comes a day When we can't be together
                              keep me in your heart, I'll stay there forever.

                              **************************************

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