Friends.....and Love

FRIENDSHIP

I think the most precious thing in life is Friends.
All other relationships are based on self-interests.
The moment interests clash ; all love, affection vanish.
Not so in friendship.

Friendship is not related to age, sex, status, terms or conditions.
No logic, no motive, no plans, no ends .
Just an acceptance of, an admiration for,
a best wish for other human - being , plant or pet .
I firmly believe that -
One can not be a good parent, a good child, a good spouse,
a good worker or manager, a good teacher, a good pupil,
name any relationship, without being able to be
First a Good Friend !!

In life nothing is more joy than company of good friends .
And nothing is more strength than true friends on your side .

LOVE

I think Love is the most misused / confused concept of our times.
Love is not "Getting". Love is "Giving".
When it is ONLY getting , wanting , demanding , dictating , it is lust not love.
Love is focussed on "giving" .
Giving time, attention, ears, empathy, encouragement.
Love is Freedom , not a jail .
True Love is giving , empowering and enabling.
It is that invisible thread which brings
A bird from far & high skies , right back to its little nest .