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  • Achu
    • Oct 2006
    • 168

    Parents 'underestimate' net risks

    Three quarters have net access at home
    Parents are still largely unaware of the risks their children take on the net, even though 75% of teenagers use the net at home, says a report.
    A London School of Economics study suggested 57% had seen things that they shouldn't see through net, but most stumbled on it accidentally via spam or pop-ups.

    Only 16% of parents thought their children had seen porn online.

    Children are aware of net safety, but parents need help in understanding how to talk through good and bad net experiences and risks, said the report.

    Many nine to 19-year-olds worried that if they told their parents about negative experiences, their net use would be severely restricted or their parents would overreact.

    Steep learning curve

    "I am struck by a sense that a significant minority of parents don't know what they do online," report author Professor Sonia Livingstone, from the London School of Economics and Political Science, told BBC News Online.

    "And perhaps it is because they see it as a more positive medium. They don't seem aware of the risks."

    This lack of awareness meant parents were unable to properly support and guide their children.

    The quick rate of net uptake amongst children in general posed a steep learning curve for them, their parents and teachers alike.

    Most nine to 19-year-olds used the net frequently, at least once a week, but only for moderate amounts of time, the report found.

    With the rapid growth in broadband, many children said they had more than one computer at home.

    A fifth accessed the net in their bedrooms and 79% who had home access said they used the net with no supervision at all.


    Worryingly, nearly a third, said they had not had lessons at school on how to use the net, even though most used it for homework.

    Significantly, the report found that chatroom use was low: only 21% used them, preferring instant messaging programs (IM) instead.

    The closure of MSN's global chatrooms last year had certainly contributed to this, said Professor Livingstone.

    "But as soon as IM became widely available, that was the application they wanted anyway," she explained.

    "There was a very strong preference for talking in peer networks, where they know people. They did not particularly want to chat to strangers."

    Net dilemmas

    Parents are not sufficiently aware that their children are still facing significant dilemmas and contradictions online either.

    Many children are aware of what they should and should not do online, but their net experiences were contradictory.

    Nearly half of UK children, 46%, had given out personal information online, but only 5% of parents were aware they had.

    Many had no choice when applications or websites they wanted to use required such details as part of their registration process.

    "You can know the rule that it is not safe, but if you go to a site which asks for that information, you have to give that information.

    "It is impossible for them to be responsible and under those circumstances and it is hard for them to work out what is reliable and what is safe," said Professor Livingstone.

    In order for them to help, parents need to be able to identify the risks and opportunities while respecting children's right to privacy, the report concluded.

    "It is clear that parents don't feel they have sufficient resources, information and understanding about what the net is.

    "There is a strong tendency to say, well my child knows more about it than me," Professor Livingstone said.

    But, she added, parents needed to be aware that the nature of risks and dangers was a constantly "moving target".

    Keeping up-to-date by talking sensibly about what children might do online and unpleasant issues they may have to deal with was key.

    That way parents might have a better understanding about what the net can offer children and how to deal with problems when they arise, especially as more go online.

    More could be done on the policy and net service providers side too. Anti-spam efforts were helping to divert unwanted content away from children.

    But even though great efforts had been made by service providers and other groups to give children safety advice, many were still unsure what they should do if they came across nasty content.

    Some kind of portal where children knew they could get everything they needed in one place was perhaps needed, she suggested.

    The UK Children Go Online report, funded by the Economic and Social Research Council under the e-Society programme, surveyed 1,511 young people aged nine to 19, and 906 parents.

    i think dis is a gud feauture especially 4 younsters.children aged 7-11 r using net without any supervision.parents never know wat they r doing,or wat dey r up2,mayb itz cuz dey r workin or deyy never think dat der child wld nvr do any"bad thing"

    i researched about dis issue on da internet,n i found dis feauture n i think it is pretty gud. 65% of children and teenagers are goin thru a wrong path,d'u not think it is true? dey like 2 spend der "spare time" on "other things"n gettin a "chat friend".n trust me,its is even worse,getting a pen pal. even if dey r indians...i am not sayin da site,probably all of uz know wat site i am sayin abt.i am not mentioning the site here cuz der r lotz of children here n i dont want dem 2 go n look at it.
    Last edited by ninghalkaai; 13 October 2006, 03:33.


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  • cid
    • Sep 2006
    • 239

    #2
    it is a matter of concern
    a good article by the way r u aware abt it achu z
    thx for putting it up here
    it is a good topic to express yr views on
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    • ninghalkaai
      Weindianvip
      • Sep 2006
      • 969

      #3
      Thats a good info... i am using my computer more than anyone in my house does... but i don't go out like that..
      ya i think 65% of teenagers n children are going like that.. i know some of my friends who are like that.. but they don't tell me to go to that site... anyway so i am not having a problem with them...
      the pop-ups can be stopped by blocking them.. my pop-up blocker is always on.. so no problem for me..
      i think i got the site you were talking about...
      anyway nice one ACHU... very informative... keep on rocking..
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      • Samanthajones
        • Sep 2006
        • 5008

        #4
        thas a very nice article achu!!!!, keep up the good work!!!!!, i thin kthat parents should set up a pop up blocker for their computers!!!, that way bad things will not appear!!!!!
        ~Samanthajones~

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        • Jessfrance
          • Sep 2006
          • 4440

          #5
          hehe.. i agree with sam!!! then it would be ok...z thankz anyway.



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          • soldier
            • Oct 2006
            • 151

            #6
            parents are concerned abt us....and they sumtimes feel that we're going in the wrong path in life...dats y they bother us while we use the net.......

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            • Achu
              • Oct 2006
              • 168

              #7
              Originally posted by soldier View Post
              parents are concerned abt us....and they sumtimes feel that we're going in the wrong path in life...dats y they bother us while we use the net.......

              exactly soldier,i agree with u


              make a smile dat never fails
              make a touch dat never hurts
              make a heart dat never breaks
              make a friendship dat never ends.....

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              • soldier
                • Oct 2006
                • 151

                #8
                thanx m8..oru support kittiyalloo....

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                • meril
                  • Sep 2006
                  • 37

                  #9
                  it was informative,good article

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                  • Raymond
                    • Sep 2006
                    • 549

                    #10
                    thanx for the article...dude...keep it up
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                    • verghc
                      • Sep 2006
                      • 34

                      #11
                      there are many kids who got traumatized with what they see on the net sometimes

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                      • sumith
                        • Sep 2006
                        • 2000

                        #12
                        informative work anyway thanks

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                        • bikkubikku
                          • Oct 2006
                          • 147

                          #13
                          Open mind approch

                          Be little brave to discuss the negative aspects of porn material over net with your child, even if you kept a parent control on your system they have so many other recourses to get access to porn material.

                          If you can?t discuss this with your child, there are reputable counselling services available most of the places.

                          The cost and time to prevent damage is always better than a repair after destruction.

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                          • check_mate
                            • Oct 2006
                            • 33

                            #14
                            thas a very nice article

                            I think parents should be more careful in child activities

                            now a days child has more access to everything than older days

                            it is very diffficult to handle them
                            Last edited by benny; 29 October 2006, 08:50.

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                            • ozydesi
                              • Oct 2006
                              • 21

                              #15
                              very good article

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